Speaking Up

May 13, 2009
Text: Titus 2:1-8
Title: Speaking Up

 

Thoughts:

Since we’re on the subject of personal hygiene this week, I thought I’d throw one more enticing story in. A few years back I was meeting with someone to discuss some ministry expansion ideas. It so happened that the two individuals I was meeting with, no one related to our church, were both older than myself. As we sat meeting over breakfast, one of the individual’s allergies flared up. And, with the allergies came hana butter, which in Hawaii means “nose butter” or the affectionate nasal goo that produces boogers. Thankfully, I was finished with my “Two eggs and things”!

As is typically the case, there were remnants that remained on the outer portion of her nose for the rest of our meeting time. It was a bit uncomfortable and embarassing. But who wants to tell a lady the age of your grandmother that she has a remnant remaining on her face?!

Titus addressing the spiritual conditions of the Cretan elders was probably as appealing as was telling this elderly lady that she had da kine on her face. In his case, Titus was dealing with spiritual issues of people who were much older than himself. I can’t imagine that there would be any comfort in this. Nevertheless, the apostle Paul emphatically calls the minister of God to his position as a leader in the church. Indeed, it was his responsibility to lead, even the elders.

At times it is difficult for us to confront core spiritual hygiene with those who should know better. Better yet, it is difficult for us to tell our friends that they have something on their face. Yet, if we were polled, the large majority would want to know that we had something that needed to be corrected in our hygiene, rather than walking around looking unkept. Such should be the case for us spiritually, we should both be ready to lovingly accept spiritual direction and correction, as well as receive it. But it’s not always that simple.

Why does hygiene have to be so persnickety?!

PS: I never told the lady she had da kine on her face.

 

Application:

Why do you think we struggle to speak up in the lives of others?

How do you respond when others do speak up about issues in your life?

What might people be noticing about your spiritual hygiene right now, but just aren’t saying anything?

 

Prayer:

Father,

Thank You for the spiritual and practical direction of Scripture. Truly, You are calling us all higher in You. Looking back over my life, I have come to appreciate those Titus’ who were willing to speak up concerning some spiritual blind spots in my life. I am the better for it. Yet, I struggle with speaking up in the lives of others, especially when they are my elders. Help me to become confident to speak up for healthy doctrine. May Your body become all that You desire it to be!

In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Behold, He Stinks! Seriously!

May 12, 2009

Text: Titus 1:10-16

Title: Behold, He Stinks! Seriously!

 

Thoughts:

While I was going through college, I was blessed with an opportunity to work at the Bradley Farmers Coop. Serving a vast array of clientele, I assisted everyone from the owner of Coca-Cola’s wife to the individual who was struggling to scratch out an existence on earth. But no customer was more perplexing than the retired banker.

 

I was offended from my first introduction. In fact, I think everyone was. This guy was just nasty. With no exaggeration, you smelled him before you saw him. On one occasion, he had this massively infected sore on the bridge of his nose. It oozed infection as I waited on him. It was one of the grossest things I have ever seen. And, to imagine, this man once led businesses in their financial matters.

 

It just doesn’t seem to fit. A banker smelling and looking worse than someone who is unable to afford a meal or shower. After all, he even had a nice home that he could take a shower in. What’s up with that?!

 

As I read through Titus, I just couldn’t help but recall the banker. Stereotypes teach us that bankers should be sophisticated, clean-cut, and respectable. Fundamentally, the Scriptures teach us that followers of Christ should exemplify dignity, honor, self-control, purity, and kindness. Yet, neither this banker nor the Cretan believers were matching up to what they were supposed to be. In fact, one of their own prophets declared, “Cretans are always liars, evil beasts, lazy gluttons” (Tit. 1:12). Unfortunately, Paul found the testimony of the prophet to be true (Tit. 1:13).

 

There are certain characteristics that followers of Christ should embody. And, when we fail in this basic areas, we discredit the Word of God and our faith. Paul urged Titus to “reprove them severely so that they may be sound in faith” (Tit.1:13). This word sound is the root word for our English word hygiene. Later, he expresses that their doctrine should also be sound, or “healthy, healthful” (Tit. 2:1).

 

A healthy hygiene speaks incredible volumes about our lives and faith. Indeed, it precedes us. Perhaps someone should have exercised a severe reprimand of this banker’s hygiene. It would have made drastic improvements to his circle of influence.

 

Application:

How are you doing on your spiritual hygiene? Is your faith healthy?

 

Have you ever been around someone who’s spiritual hygiene was unbecoming of the foundational tenets of our Christian faith?

 

When has someone addressed your spiritual hygiene? How did you respond?

 

Prayer:

Father,

 

Thank You for sending those men and women into my life that are willing to severely reprove me. Though no one enjoys being told his breath stinks, it’s much better than offending others. It might be embarrassing in the natural, but it makes huge dividends in the spiritual. Please let me not miss heaven because another did not reprove my poor spiritual hygiene. Likewise, may I not let another miss because I failed to be a true friend and brother in Christ. Increase our hygiene today.

 

In Jesus’ name. Amen.